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  • Coping in the fire's aftermath

    Psychological effects of the Oak Knoll fire in Ashland will take time to heal, says chaplain
  • Firefighters have extinguished the Oak Knoll fire and the smoke has cleared over the 11 houses burned, but the psychological effects of the disaster remain, said Ashland Fire & Rescue chaplain Mark Anderson.
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  • Firefighters have extinguished the Oak Knoll fire and the smoke has cleared over the 11 houses burned, but the psychological effects of the disaster remain, said Ashland Fire & Rescue chaplain Mark Anderson.
    The worst residential fire in at least 100 years in Ashland has shaken the families who lost their homes, the firefighters who fought the blaze and the community at large, he said.
    "What I'm seeing is very similar to grief and I'm also seeing symptoms of shock," Anderson said. "People feel intense loss, and they may feel a loss of control and a fear of the future."
    David and Danna Gustafson are trying to accept that the home they retired in on 889 Oak Knoll Drive was destroyed Aug. 24, along with almost everything inside it.
    "It's a slow process, actually accepting that your house is gone and thinking of all the little things you liked and will miss," David Gustafson said.
    Anderson, trained in crisis intervention and trauma counseling, has spoken with three victims who each lost a house in the fire, he said. The victims have described symptoms of shock and grief, which include having difficulties making decisions, obsessing over minor things, being unable to sleep and being unable cognitively to move on, he said.
    "I understand that this is pretty normal, when families lose their entire house and all the belongings in it," said Anderson, who serves as the pastor of Ashland Christian Fellowship. "They're overwhelmed by all the decisions they have to make so quickly, such as settling with the insurance company and finding a place to stay."
    While the victims are grateful for the outpouring of community support, some of them also feel burdened by the number of phone calls and e-mails they're receiving, Anderson said.
    "I think people feel a little overwhelmed not just by what's happened, but by all the attention they're getting, which is in some ways good and in some ways overwhelming," he said.
    Gustafson said he has received "one phone call after another and about 200 e-mails" from people offering to help.
    "There are a lot of thoughtful people, it's just hard to get them all answered," he said. "There are all kinds of people wanting to know if they can help, and there's not much anybody can actually do, unfortunately."
    Some of the fire victims who have children are having an especially difficult time explaining the loss to them, Anderson said.
    "The children are expressing a little bit of fear, and they're wondering, 'If this could happen, when it will happen again and will I be ready for it to happen?' " he said. "It's challenging for a parent to reassure a child that things are going to be OK. And there's also the loss of significant toys or belongings that the kids use to get to sleep, for example."
    Julie Thomas said the destruction of her family's home at 897 Oak Knoll Drive has been especially difficult for her 17-year-old son, Brady, a senior at Ashland High School.
    "He's really had the rug pulled out from under him," she said. "I truly believe it's more difficult on these kids than I ever thought it would be. This is all they've ever known."
    People should give the victims space to process their feelings about the fire, Anderson said.
    "Do a lot of listening and less talking," he said. "If they need to tell their story several times to the same person, let them, because as they tell it, it begins to lose its power over them."
    Firefighters are dealing with feelings of guilt, even though officials say there was nothing else they could have done to save the 11 homes from the wind-whipped fire, said Dana Sallee, engineer and paramedic with Ashland Fire & Rescue.
    "As an emergency service employee and a firefighter, these are things that are not supposed to happen," he said. "These are the things you're trained to try to prevent. But in the case of a fire like this, it was out of our control." Meeting with the families who lost their homes and helping them comb through the rubble also has been challenging, he said.
    "The families are coming out hoping to find their home or a portion of some memory they can grasp onto and there's nothing," he said. "Emotionally that's very difficult."
    Hannah Guzik is a reporter with the Ashland Daily Tidings. Reach her at 541-482-3456 ext. 226 or hguzik@dailytidings.com.
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